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Why I'm not in a relationship

           Hi guys. It's honestly been a while. Anyways I'm not in university yet. Butttttttt... I have decided to do a post on why I'm not in a romantic relationship. 

  First and foremost, I'm a Muslim. It's not really needed for me to have more than the simple interactions I need to have with the opposite gender in this day and age. Please don't get me wrong here. I have a lot of male friends but I honestly know where to draw the line.

 Secondly, I'm kind of an introvert. It's weird but I trust people so easily but they end up easily hurting me. I have the phobia of getting hurt. I'm afraid of a broken heart so I always over-think relationship proposals which hurts both of us in the end which I happen to apologise for.

 Thirdly and finally, I'm the kind of girl that wants a serious relationship. Due to the reasons I gave above, it's kind of obvious that I'm not looking for something casual, or something I'm doing just because. I'm looking for some one I can pray with, laugh with, cry with, fight with, cuddle with. I'm looking for a life partner, my partner in love, life and crime😂. It might sound crazy but I've only been 16 for 23 days. 

 I just want to love and be loved equally if not more. Casual relationships can't and won't be my thing. We just don't vibe. I'm crazy but he'll love that crazy because I am ME. Crazy, Annoying, Troublesome ME. Till then I'm single plus I love you guys. Purple youuuu💜💜💜❤😊.
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  1. She Speaks6 February 2020 at 20:36

    I have only one response for this
    MAD OOO 😂😂💖💖🔥🔥

    But I truly hope and pray you find what/who you're looking for. God guide you and lead you aright. In Jesus Mighty Name. AMEN 🙏🙏💖

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  2. Unknown6 March 2021 at 20:39

    Just be you.....someone will see how awesome you are..if they don't they blind 😂

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